Why is this even a question??

  • Jul. 3rd, 2009 at 9:15 PM
So, sorry for all the posts based on stuff from our paper's site, lately. It just gives so much material...

They have a poll on the front page that they change occasionally, based on any Big News in the area or just random crap.

I usually vote in them if I have any sort of real opinion, just because it's there on the front page.

Today's was in reaction to Palin resigning (and dear Lord, why do these things always happen when The Daily Show/The Colbert Report are on break???).

Have a screencap.



*headdesks. repeatedly.*

Yes, I know the day Tennessee turns blue will be the same day the Four Horsepeople show up. And yes, it's mildly heartening that the percentage of "heck no" is still higher.

But that "definitely" is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy (etc) too high. As is the "maybe".

*mutters* I need to get out of this damn state. *eyes people's couches ;)*

ETA: Agh, and it's getting worse. Now just a 2% difference between "no way" and "definitely".

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hey everyone!!

  • Jul. 3rd, 2009 at 6:16 PM
A couple months  ago I adopted a Corgi-Lab mix (Zero)from a shelter.Now he is the love of my life next to the bf :) I really enjoyed seeing all the pics of the pups and i cant wait to see more :)

Dirty and his money are soon parted

  • Jul. 2nd, 2009 at 10:02 PM
Anyone bored enough to code this into a live minisite this weekend?

Jul. 2nd, 2009

  • 6:30 PM
I was playing with StumbleUpon the other night and ran across this post in a blog:

http://www.ordinarycourage.com/my-blog/2009/6/16/this-i-believe-about-basic-dignity.html

[BEGIN QUOTED ARTICLE]

I try not to use this blog space to rant or be preachy. I’m not a fan of ranting or sermons (unless it’s Sunday - and even then it really depends on the sermon).

Think of this as a desperate plea.

Yesterday, while I was trying to enjoy my manicure, I watched in horror as the two women across from me talked on their phones the entire time they were getting their manicures. They employed head nods, eyebrow raises, and finger pointing to instruct the manicurists on things like nail length and polish choices.

I really couldn't believe it.

I’ve had my nails done by the same two women for 10 years. I know their names (their real Vietnamese names), their children’s names, and many of their stories. They know my name, my children’s names, and many of my stories. When I finally made a comment about the women on their cell phones, they both quickly averted their eyes. Finally, in a whisper, Susan said, “They don’t know. Most of them don’t think of us as real people.”

On the way home, I stopped at Barnes & Noble to pick up a magazine. The woman ahead of me in line bought two books, applied for a new “reader card,” and asked to get one book gift wrapped without getting off of her cell phone. She plowed through the entire exchange without making eye contact or directly speaking to the young woman working at the counter. She never acknowledged the presence of the human being across from her.

After leaving Barnes & Noble, I drove through the Chick-fil-A drive-thru to get a Diet Dr. Pepper. Right as I pulled up to the window, my cell phone rang. I wasn’t quite sure, but I thought it might be Charlie’s school calling. I answered it. It wasn’t Charlie’s school – it was someone calling to confirm my hair appointment. I got off the phone as quickly as I could.

In the short time it took me to say, “Yes, I’ll be at my appointment,” the woman in the window and I had finished our soda-for-money transaction. I apologized to her the second I got off of the phone. I said, “I’m so sorry. The phone rang right when I was pulling up and I thought it was my son’s school.”

I must have surprised her because she got huge tears in her eyes and said, “Thank you. Thank you so much. You have no idea how humiliating it is sometimes. They don’t even see us.”

I don’t know how it feels for her, but I do know how it feels to be an invisible member of the service industry. It can suck.

I worked my way through undergrad and some of graduate school by waiting tables. I worked in a really nice restaurant that was close to campus and a hot spot for wealthy college kids and their parents (parents who were visiting for the weekend and treating their kids and their kids’ friends to dinner). I was in my late 20’s and praying to finish my bachelor’s degree before I hit 30.

When the customers were kind and respectful, it was OK, but one “waiter as object” moment could tear me apart. Unfortunately, I now see those moments happening all of the time.

I see adults who don’t even look at their waiters when they speak to them. I see parents who let their young children talk down to store clerks. I see people rage and scream at receptionists then treat the bosses/doctors/bankers with the utmost respect.

And, I see the insidious nature of race, class, and privilege playing out in one of the most historically damaging ways possible – the server/served relationship.

Everyone wants to know why customer service has gone to hell in a handbasket.

I want to know why customer behavior has gone to hell in a handbasket.

When we treat people as objects, we dehumanize them. We do something really terrible to their souls and to our own.

Martin Buber, an Austrian-born philosopher, wrote about the differences between an "I-it" relationship and an "I-you" relationship. An "I-it" relationship is basically what we create when we are in transactions with people whom we treat like objects - people who are simply there to serve us or complete a task.

I-you relationships are characterized by human connection and empathy.

I’m not suggesting that we engage in a deep, meaningful relationship with the man who works at the cleaners or the woman who works at the drive-thru, but I am suggesting that we stop dehumanizing people and start looking them in the eye when we speak to them. If we don’t have the energy or time to do that, we should stay at home.

And, for the love of humankind, we need to get off of our damn phones and show some basic respect to the people who are standing in front of us.

Buber wrote, “When two people relate to each other authentically and humanly, God is the electricity that surges between them.”

I just don’t think treating each other with basic dignity is asking too much.

[END QUOTED ARTICLE]

I'd add something to it, but I really don't know what I could say that she didn't already.

I so, so, so hate cell phones for the way we just completely get ignored when people are on them. Though, we at least know that people on their cell phones aren't secret shoppers.

And I just... gah. I've always tried to make a point to be nice to waiters and cashiers and so on, even before I did any retail work, but especially now. Because as much as I try not to let the bad customers get to me, it still does. And yeah, I could write a novel on this, and I probably will make a giant post of bitching, some day, but. For now I just wanted to post that article.

July 2009 - Swimming Corgis!

  • Jul. 2nd, 2009 at 10:09 AM
This month...

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Swimming Corgis!

Our short dogs can swim too (or at least get their toes wet!) Post your wet, hairy pictures by July 28th as a comment to this post. Happy splashing!

June 2009 - Dirty Corgis! (Winner)

  • Jul. 2nd, 2009 at 9:58 AM
And the winner is...

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Congrats to Link and [info]turnblue!!



(Ein is ashamed and will work on being more filthy for next time!)

Peeps are going to be mad at me

  • Jul. 2nd, 2009 at 6:00 AM

I'm just going to get the bad news out of the way first--I've decided that rather than write the Ben and Fran book in the next month, well before it is due to be written, I will let it go back to its original due date, and take the next month off to recuperate from the past two weeks. I know how disappointed some of you will be that the B&F book will come out in November 2010 rather than May 2010, but given the recent happenings, I just don't have the heart to write it at this time.

 

Given that the stress related to my furry girl's illness sent me to the ER last Saturday night/Sunday morning with a severe ulcer attack, I am confident that people will understand, even though they're disappointed. I'm disappointed, too. I really want to get this book written, but not at the expense of making another early-morning visit to the folks at the local hospital. They were certainly nice enough, and introduced me to morphine, which I have to say is a wonderous, wonderous drug, but meh. I'd rather not do that again.

 

So Love in the Time of Dragons, the new dragon sept book, will be out in May 2010, and the Ben and Fran book, as yet unwritten, will be out in November 2010. Smooshed in that schedule are also Steamed (February), a paranormal novella for the animal shelter anthology, which I believe is scheduled for July 2010, and my Jim short story in the Charlaine Harris/Toni Kelper antho Death's Mysterious Vacation (out in August 2010, if I'm recalling the date correctly).

 

This gives me a couple of weeks off to edit the dragon book, and cope with the loss of my furry girl. I plan on reading like crazy during this time--I've already started--including some of the old classics that I mentioned via yesterday's BookGlutton post.This free time should also let me catch up on all the reader request letters, reader e-mails, and to spruce up my websites, as well as clean Rancho Doghair from top to bottom (it's amazing how much crap you can accumulate during the year!). OK, that last one is pretty low on my priority list, I admit, although it would be nice to have a belated Spring Cleaning and replace some old furniture with new pieces.

 

In the mean time, thank you all for hanging in here with me. I'm sorry that my plans to whip off the B&F book fell victim to life's sorrows, but since I have yet to be made Supreme Ruler of the Universe (and dammit, I don't see why I haven't!), that's just going to be the way things are.

Blog Party Day 2: Sneak Peek

  • Jul. 2nd, 2009 at 8:18 AM
A sneak peek at Troy High, in my Southern accent. Special guest appearance!



Need an unbiased look at Troy High? Click here for a review from Library Lounge Lizard!

Your party music for the day is the song my fifty-some year old aunt requested at the wedding the other night so she could dance: "Boom Boom Pow" by the Black Eyed Peas. You're never too old for some Boom Boom Pow.

(I was going to put up a video of me dancing the Thriller for you guys, but I've hurt both of my ankles and it's painful just to walk so I can't attempt to dance right now.)

July Birthdays!

  • Jul. 2nd, 2009 at 6:46 AM
Here are our July Birthdays!
Check out the birthday pups pictures in the directory. And also please let me know if my information is incorrect.


July Birthdays

[info]erin0610's Bella - 7/2/05 [4]
Carlin - 7/10/08 [1]
Cody - 7/29/06 [3]
Foomin - 7/8/06 [3]
Guinness - 7/4/06 [3]
Hamlet - 7/12
Harvey - 7/24/05 [4]
Kali - 7/7/07 [2]
Korby - 7/31/02 [7]
Laci - 7/20/08 [1]
Mickey - 7/20/04 [5]
Mitch - 7/20/03 [6]
Puck - 7/11/07 [2]
Quinn - 7/29/02 [7]
Rigby - 7/30/07 [2]
Skye - 7/19/03 [6]
Stewart - 7/2/00 [9]
Tauri - 7/29/06 [3]
Tesla - 7/21
Tucker - 7/3/06 [3]
Turbo - 7/3/07 [2]
[info]magnoliafly
[info]ohthecuteness
[info]lemmingpie
[info]somethingpoetic

If you would like your pup added to the directory, just fill out the poll!

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Half a Million!

  • Jul. 1st, 2009 at 3:46 PM
Over 500,000 hits on Book View Cafe last month! Whoo-hoo! We're also within cheering distance of 1000 registered members. When the counter hits four figures, we're gonna party. (One of the door prizes is a story by moi. Shhhhh. You didn't hear that yet.)

My stories are in the top 25 for hits for the month. Thanks to everybody from here who made that happen. :)

Hi all :3

  • Jul. 1st, 2009 at 2:34 PM
I'm new. I joined via the recommendation of a cool person in dog_lovers. But enough about me, I am boring. I'm here to introduce my little bud named Beaker.

Cut for pics! )

Anywho, sorry for the super long post. And also sorry for the quality of some of the pics. I tend to take a TON of shots of Beaker with my cell phone, and when we're inside the quality doesn't turn out so great. Hopefully I'll get some better shots soon.

Books are the best distractions

  • Jul. 1st, 2009 at 9:53 AM

Thank you all again for your words of sympathy. They mean a lot to my husband and me.

 

In a desperate attempt to distract myself, I created an account at a new online service called BookGlutton. BG allows you to read books online with others, leave comments about the book, and chat with others who are reading the same book in real time.

Accounts are free. The books contained there are limited, I believe, to those out of copyright, but I thought that BookGlutton could be used by those of us who need a little encouragement to try reading something new and different.

With that thought in mind, I set up a Katie Mac Reading Group for folks who want to join me in reading some of the classics. I really would love to go through Ann Radcliffe's books, but they don't have them included in their offerings (although I suppose I could upload a version from Gutenberg). I did suggest they get them in, so hopefully they'll do that. Until that time, I decided that I would read another old classic Gothic novel, Castle of Otranto, by Horace Walpole.

If you'd like to join BookGlutton and read the book with me, you can find me at http://www.bookglutton.com/glutton/KatieMac.html and the book group at http://www.bookglutton.com/bookgroup/show/id/156.

It should be a fun way to try something new/different.

Story Wednesday!

  • Jul. 1st, 2009 at 9:10 AM
There's a new story up at Book View Cafe. This one is totally off the wall. I wrote it for Resnick as a sequel to "Them Old Hyannis Blues." It's sort of appropriate for the Fourth.

At least I think so.

Blog party kickoff

  • Jul. 1st, 2009 at 8:42 AM
*throws confetti*

*lets loose a thousand balloons*

Welcome to my blog party! We're partying throughout the month of July. Today I've relaunched my website shananorris.com with a whole new look, so if you're reading this through Livejournal you can pop over there to take a look! Also, the Troy High page has been expanded to give more details about my version of the retelling and also includes links to different websites with more information on the events and people involved in the Trojan War.

Here's the first bit of trivia I've released about Troy High:

It's obvious where Troy High got its name, but the name of the other high school in the story, Lacede High, was also inspired by Ancient Greece: Sparta was referred to by the ancient Greeks as Lacedaemon. According to Greek mythology, Lacedaemon was a son of Zeus and married Sparta. He named his country after himself and the capital after his wife. Lacedaemon is now the name of a province in the Greek prefecture Laconia, where the ancient site of Sparta lies. From Lacedaemon, I created the school name of Lacede High School, home of the Spartans.


There will be a video sneak peek at Troy High posted tomorrow, so check back for that!

Now, since this is a party, we're going to dance. As a tribute and because it's one of those songs that I absolutely cannot resist dancing to, we're kicking off with Thriller!



(It's just the dance part because all of the full version videos have disabled embedding. But you can go here to see the full video.)

Biscuit stopping by to say HOWDIE...

  • Jul. 1st, 2009 at 6:17 AM
Just wanted to say hello...been a few months or so since we posted on here.
Biscuit does NOT like the 100+ degree heat here in Dallas right now.
He hardly goes outside now.
He isn't scared of the thunder itself, but HATES water/rain/getting wet. NICE.
Fun bath times and walks when it is drizzling.

He's gotten BIG...Not gigantic! Here are a few pictures taken early one morning at the dog park down the street...It's really nice, just a few blocks from home and fenced in.
It's his favorite place!

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Yes- his tongue is enormously long still!! LOL

Hope everyone is having a great summer!

no name corgi is carli now

  • Jun. 30th, 2009 at 10:54 PM
I just got home after completing the carefully constructed drive to rescue the No Name Corgi, I couldn't be more pleased :) She was a dream to ride with! I'm so very happy for her that she is safe from euthanasia and going to find her forever home. Here are some pictures from my leg of the trip, for those who are interested.

Dogs awaaayyyyyyy.... )

Blog Party!

  • Jun. 30th, 2009 at 10:15 AM


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